what here therefore live a nut and then
I recorded a guy has just agreed to try
the cry it out method which is something
that I've wanted to try you're letting
your ear baby cry for an extended period
of time really at bedtime because so far
she's been like you know rocked to sleep
or fed to sleep so she doesn't know how
to sleep by herself
the cried out method is supposed to put
a stop to this so this is day one I put
her down she was sleepy she's fed she
showered and everything she was in bed I
laughed and it's been like five minutes
and she started crying and it's 7:28
p.m. I'll try it again tomorrow night
and the next night and see if there's an
improvement yeah at 7:42 and she's just
crying pretty hard 7:45 now and Angas
starting to like feel the burn he's like
I'm a Brooklyn Giza I hope that he's
strong enough what I read actually
suggested that the weaker parent like
who's more likely to cave should go out
so I told it I'm gonna go and just let
me do it but he wants to stick around so
8:05
no more crying I think she might be
giving up 8:22 I just checked on her and
she is fast asleep congratulations daddy
I'm just so so stressed out he's really
really pissed at me right now I'm trying
to find something to send to Angus
National Geographic in Tunisia so there
are articles in bahasa indonesia about
this topic but you don't have too many
people in indonesia try this that's not
the intermediate way i want her to be
able to be a little bit self-sufficient
like making herself go to sleep instead
of being brought to sleep i love you
good night number two and it's 737 and i
just gave her bath did the bull
she's crying already i really doubt were
this lucky but she's like completely
coring it and then seven forty seven ten
minutes I might like seeing this wrong
oh my god like yeah 747
it's been quiet for like a minute it's
confirmed she is sleeping sound asleep
dreaming of cheese
she only cried for 10 minutes maybe 9
minutes but last night I told on guy
like let her cry again before 4 a.m.
like let her cry it out again but he did
go in and give her milk I didn't even
hear her cry last night she must have
just whimpered and then unger like went
in give her milk so I don't know he
looks a bit shifty what do you think
he's still not super happy but tonight
was easier are you still mad so I'm
doing this alone
basically I'm getting any support from
my partner ok
7:32 she's down and she was crying like
pretty bad when I put her down because
she no was like oh you're gonna do this
to me again I have to sleep without
rocking 7:33 and she's done crying that
was it
she's done she only cried for less than
a minute night free so she was about to
fall asleep and we didn't want her to
fall asleep late before we had a chance
to like put her in a safe and by herself
so we put her down at 7:10 and we'll see
how long the cry goes ok at 7:16 and
she's I think she's done crying tonight
so 6 minutes okay last night did not go
as planned tonight number four of cried
out was the bad one because we didn't
give her a bath right before bed and
usually we do and she cried for about
five no 30 minutes and she woke up again
11:30 or 12:00 o'clock and under give
her milk I think I don't know if that
was the best decision I don't really
know anyway so nice for was no good but
night number five
it took her seven or eight minutes to
fall asleep
and she slept right through the night
until 8 o'clock in the morning because
right before bed we've given her bath
and she had her milk and she did her
bedtime routine exactly as normal it
works really well and in the end I think
the babies end up crying less because
they cry it out all at once then they
get over it
5 minutes of crying is way better than
crying throughout the night and waking
up in the middle of the night and not
knowing how to go back to sleep
judge if you wish but I like it and Z
seems to be getting better and better so
yeah I what about your babies we'll just
think about the quiet out method so go
mess it or no good method
have you already looked and they don't
have any to poor plushies in Indonesia
but I found you an Elmo do you want that
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