When to start dating someone
How often should you see a guy when you first start dating them ? Renee Slansky Advice
all right I get asked this question all
the time and it's basically how often
should you see a guy when you first
start dating because you don't want to
come on too strong if you don't want to
like not show enough interest so he
basically goes well this girl isn't for
me in this video I actually gave you a
strategy and a guideline on how often
you should see a guy when you first
start
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hi everyone welcome back to my youtube
channel i'm rene slansky
I'm a professional dating and
relationship coach this is just
basically a new segment that I'm
starting where I want to ask some of
those common dating questions that are
given to me so I can just tell you girls
what you should do so that you can cut
through the confusion and one of those
common questions is how often should you
actually see a guy should you see him
once a week twice a week three times a
weekend for how long the important thing
that you need to understand here that
setting the pace in the beginning of a
relationship so when you're getting to
know someone is really important because
it does two things number one it
actually gives you time and perspective
to get to know someone's character and
number two it actually makes them want
to pursue you even more my rule of thumb
is actually it is if you are dating
someone then you should only see them
once a week for the first four weeks
okay
what this does is it means that you've
got time enough to be able to plan dates
so that you've got something to look
forward to and get excited about it
gives you again an indication of whether
or not he's going to continue to invest
in you because he can't see you every
single day or a few times in one week
and a good month
I've only seen each other once a week so
that's four times in one month really
helps you work out again is this person
invested and what do I actually know
about them those first four dates should
be really casual dates so they should
have been going back to each other's
houses in between there or doing things
overly familiar and intimate ladies if
you want a guy to pursue you and woo you
but not only that you want the right man
with the right intentions then you can't
rush this process you have to understand
that even if he's really keen on you and
he wants to speed things up or get
intimate really soon it doesn't mean
that you should and this brings me to my
free webinar that I have for you girls
it's all about understanding the three
common mistakes that we make in dating
and the three
ships we need to make to really set
ourselves up to attract and build a
healthy dating life which then leads to
a healthy relationship now that's what I
suggest that you should be doing in the
first month then obviously as you start
to get to know each other over the
second or third month you can increase
the amount of time that you can be seen
that person at the end of the day girls
it's about investment how much are they
investing into you is an indication of
how much you should invest back and not
only that who is investing into me is
this person good for me
does this person want the same things as
me what is their character like that is
just as important to ask yourself as
well as how often I should say this
person hope that that helped you you can
get the access to the free webinar in
the link down below in the meantime
don't forget to subscribe give me a
thanks Renee in the comments if this
video has helped you and good luck I
will see you soon
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