When to start disciplining your infant
When to Start Disciplining a Child | Fatherhood Series 1
there's no point disciplining a child if
they don't understand what discipline is
so you need to train a child from an
early age from really from birth for
example when a child is born they have
they didn't they require food it's one
of the first things that they require is
food now if you and if they don't have
food they scream because that's the end
I swear they telling you I need some
food feed me I can't talk so they scream
it's apparent you got to understand that
why you screaming Oh hungry long way so
you give them the food but if their
child keeps crying every minute because
it wants food and he had queston it
demand then you're not training the
child and a child will end up running
your life and dictating your live until
and if you're not careful that will
overspill from childhood from a baby to
infant to child puberty and on and you
will be always whistling and dancing to
the tune that your child whistles
because of me being in work and my wife
at home and working from home she's able
to be more hands-on with the kids and
she leads a very disciplined highly
disciplined life staff for working
homework studying and and the children
they spend time to give around the table
every single day with homework or study
studying is more of a social thing in
our house rather than a chore and that
environment is created quite well there
are times when I can I join
because I'd love to take point in in
that side but purely because of times
when I'm around its the thrust of it is
primarily my wife and she does that very
well so routine is her Forte so you will
say to the child I'm gonna give you milk
and of course a period of time has two
laps before you can start inflicting
disciplines but use you will tell the
child will be by your actions rather
than your words you will get fed every
four hours and I'll feed you this amount
if this amount if you start crying
afterwards I'll give you water
so therefore the child starts to learn
how it's working and if the child
continues to cry you'll try and console
the child etc but at some point you may
just leave it requires that the child
will learn because if every time the
child cries you give in to their demands
then it knows from birth I'll cry and
I'll get some food
an Indian you're not training a child
free boundaries that we have value of
time to go to bed so they have enough
time to sleep and recharge boundary of
food I'm not a believer of snack in
snakey snakey snake in a snake in the
snack in sake number of children mercy
suffer because they are not eating the
right foods they can't concentrate in
school and the boundary of what they
watch I think far too many programs on
TV may come across quite innocent but
they display great folly and so I don't
allow them to watch certain some some
even some kids programs because they're
not dressed up as kids programs or
should I say they're dressed up as kids
programs but they've got very very kind
of
underline an adult-themed so we've with
TV so programs that allow them to watch
so the discipline starts really from
birth in terms of external forms of
discipline and chastisement it's no
point in just starting the job until
they are aware of what that chastisement
is there could be physical punishment it
could be deprivation it could be put in
a stand in a corner or stand on the
stairs where the hands are wherever the
point is is no point in giving those
forms of discipline if such a clue
what's going on so there must be honor
to correlate discipline with even one of
my Forte's is character development and
developing the characters between the
three also to be able to develop them as
characters to develop each other as a
team is also an important thing for
children to have within siblings in fact
a lot of the activities that are brought
into the house or outside is for them to
actually work as a team or share work
together complete their tasks together
so they know how to you know to be in
that three-legged race as you we're not
to say they can't do things by
themselves but I want them to be I
wanted to have the character to work
together which also helps outside in the
wider community when they can learn how
to work with other people so between
routine and and and building character
there's there's a skill set there's also
the character to to actually take those
skills and use them in a wider community
but if the child has done something they
must understand consequences of their
act
now as they become older and wiser and
more intelligent so their understanding
grows of the consequences of their
action but nonetheless the training of a
child as far as I'm concerned starts
just after birth one of my high points
in my computer game in life was
completing something the Hedgehog I felt
really great it's fantastic one of my
low points in my life was this took the
place of my revision and I really really
really failed to become honest in doing
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