hello I'm Natasha McCray and welcome to
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our friday day night Q&A these question
is when should we start talking about
the M word we're talking about marriage
people when should you start talking
about it I think if you are a woman who
wants to be married it should not be a
secret now you don't have to go standing
on the Empire State Building screaming
it out to everyone but I would think
that would be a normal conversation I
remember when I first met my husband on
arm I think second or third date he
asked me about being married and
divorced and how did I feel about
marriage and I told him I believe in the
institution of marriage it may not have
worked out for me but I know for a fact
that I want to get married again I'm on
that track no I'm not gonna get married
tomorrow but if the right candidate
comes along then I will be open to
moving into marriage I had that
conversation on our second date the
subject of marriage doesn't always have
to include the two of you do you hear
that the subject of marriage doesn't
always have to include the two of you it
can be your opinion about marriage or
the fact that yes you will be getting
married someday soon not saying it's him
or tomorrow but you will be getting
married it's okay to have that
discussion a good time to start talking
about marriage in the context of your
relationship is about a year at the year
mark you too can have that conversation
but i would like to think by this time
you know whether your esso wants to be
married or not and that's one of the
reasons we had the conversation early on
in our relationship because if he was a
guy who never ever wanted to get married
again I don't think that I would be that
girl for him so early on
the relationship you should really get
to know your significant other and see
if they do want to be married at some
point in their life and if that is the
case at the year mark you can start
talking about where does he see the two
of you together I hope that was helpful
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